Dealing With Anticipatory Anxiety - Counselling Malta

Overcome Anticipatory Anxiety

Calm down your worries about future events with Hypnotherapy And Counselling

Is most of your worrying just anticipatory anxiety about the future, rather than concerns about what's actually going on now?

Do you get eaten up with dread about upcoming events and how they will turn out?

Your ability to imagine a goal in life, and to work out detailed plans to deal with obstacles, is a truly valuable resource. Deciding what you'll do if things go wrong is key to effective planning. It would be downright silly to assume everything will always go smoothly. Flights will be delayed, rain will fall on garden parties, people will forget what they were going to say, tomato sauce will get spilled over you...It happens to everyone.

Too much thinking leads to anticipatory anxiety

The trouble is, when you spend too much time thinking too closely about everything that could go wrong, the famous mind-body connection goes into overdrive. Your worrying thoughts can trigger the actual physical emotions that would accompany those unfortunate events. Your heart rate rises, adrenaline floods into your bloodstream, and your body gets ready to face what it believes is a real and present danger.

When really it's all in your imagination.

Now obviously, it doesn't make sense to say you should just stop preparing for future events, and planning for negative eventualities, altogether. That would be likely to bring you some perfectly real (as opposed to imaginary!) difficulties.

What's needed is a way to think about eventualities (good or bad) calmly. A way to calm down any emotional response that gets triggered, so you can stay detached, make sensible plans, and then get on with your life.

And hypnotherapy is a brilliant way for you to do just that.

Hypnotherapy can help you calm down unnecessary fears

and will train your unconscious mind to instinctively calm down anxious thoughts about the future.

As you relax and listen , you'll notice that you

💖find yourself becoming much more relaxed about life in general

💖learn how to take command of your emotional responses

💖become more and more skilled at calming and quieting troubling thoughts

💖are no longer at the mercy of unpleasant emotions

💖can think much more clearly and effectively about helpful ways to prepare for upcoming events

💖enjoy life so much more.

💖face the future with calm. 

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley Appearing on TVM FITam

Dealing With Anxiety in 2022

Have you ever experienced restlessness, faster breathing or feel like you can’t stop worrying, or that bad things will happen if you stop worrying? If you did, you might be experiencing anxiety…

But the question that many are facing is: How to cope with anxiety?

Dealing with anxiety can be challenging but there are many effective ways to cope with it.

In today’s world, we’re often so caught up with life that we pay very little attention to our mental and physical health.

Many people overlook anxiety symptoms, not knowing that anxiety is one of the hidden symptoms that can kill our mental wellbeing, our relationships and even our career!

This is why it is very important to learn how to manage, overcome and get rid of these negative feelings.

Don’t let it interfere with your life.

In today’s society, almost everyone is experiencing stress and anxiety at some point in their lives.

It could be stress from school, changing job, moving house, financial stress, marriage etc.

Anxiety disorders are developed from a complex set of risk factors such as personality, brain chemistry, life events and genetics.

Everyone wants to achieve success in personal and professional lives.

But truth is not everyone gets to live the life they desire.

Do you know why?

Anxiety is the answer.

Anxiety is the main obstacle that stops someone from reaching their full potential.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley Appearing on TVM FITam

If you would like to buy the “ Anti Anxiety Formula” eBook for only €1.45 please click here >>>

Dealing With Anxiety

If you are suffering from anxiety, stress, endless worries, and depression… you need to stop whatever you are doing right now and read this page.
Discover the ultimate solution to wash away anxiety and all negative thoughts... so you can be fearless, live life on your own terms, and become the best version of yourself.

But first, have a look if you are experiencing any of these symptoms:

Excessive Worrying

Feeling Agitated

Restlessness

Fatigue

Difficulty Concentrating

Tense Muscles

Trouble Sleeping

Panic Attacks

Avoiding Social Situations

If you let anxiety and all the other symptoms mentioned above creep into your life... it will only snowball into bigger problems. More anxiety attacks, more stress, more things that you will fear and lose opportunities.

All these negative feelings will only set you back, stops you from reaching your goal, and keep your potential hidden inside you.

Anxiety is one of the hidden symptoms that can kill your career, your relationships and your mental wellbeing! This is why you need to learn how to manage, overcome, and get rid of these negative feelings. As a result of these experiences, you’re likely to feel sad and stressed.

These are perfectly normal emotions to go through from time to time. Everyone feels low and apprehensive about something or the other at some point in their lives. But when these unpleasant emotions begin to consume you, then you must act before it’s too late. Fortunately, these feelings can be healed. They can be made to shift to a more positive and constructive space. And I am are here to help.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley Appearing on TVM FITam

If you would like to buy the “ Anti Anxiety Formula” eBook for only €1.45 please click here >>>

Most People Refuse to Acknowledge Their Anxieties

Most People Refuse to Acknowledge Their Anxieties

Hey, let's face it, we all like to put up a face around people we care about or respect. At the very least, we have some sort of public face that we try to maintain.

What is this public face? Well, we want people to think that we're strong. We want to give people the impression that we have our acts together. We don't want them to see our weaknesses.

We really are often embarrassed by a public display of shortcomings or other features that we think will make us look bad. This is why we put up with appearances.

We know, deep down inside that, most of the time, we can't trust appearances. People who seem to have the perfect families, the perfect careers, or the perfect lives are actually going through a tough time. But, since we maintain this public face, most people are simply left with the surface impression that everything is going well.

Here's the thing. You can get so caught up in the public appearance that you're putting up that you end up playing seriously damaging games with yourself. One of the worst things that you can do is to be in denial about your anxieties.

Now, let's get one thing clear. Everybody's got anxieties. We all have fears about the past. We have regrets, guilt and other negative emotions about things that have happened in the past.

We also have issues about the future. Sure, these things have not yet happened, but despite that fact, we can't help but worry about them.

We would like to gain some measure of control over our lives. And sadly, too many of us try to do this by simply trying to worry ourselves into some semblance of control.

Well, just as we can't control what happened in the past, we can't control the things that have yet to happen. And that's why, unfortunately, a lot of people struggle with anxiety. It can easily get out of hand.

While it's almost normal to assume that a certain level of worry is fine, it's very easy to overstep our bounds. It's really hard to find that thin line between "healthy worries" and obsessive anxieties that wear us down and pollute our relationships.

Given this background, it is no surprise that a lot of people refuse to acknowledge their anxieties. As far as the world is concerned, they're living perfect lives or something close to it. That's the public appearance they want to give.

And before you know it, they start believing their own press. They start believing the image that they portray to the rest of the world and that's why they are terribly surprised when they figure out that they have these anxieties that are eating them from within. Are you one of these people?

Well, the good news is that there is a solution to anxiety that doesn't involve brain altering chemicals. There is an all-natural solution that doesn't involve expensive psychotherapy counselling. I am, of course, talking about changing your belief system.

The best part to all of this is that you yourself trigger the changes. By simply working with how you currently process reality, you can get out from under the crushing weight of anxiety.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley Appearing on TVM FITam

If you would like to buy the “ Overcome Anxiety Ebook” for only €1.45 please click here >>>

How to Overcome Anticipatory Anxiety

Calm down your worries about future events with Hypnotherapy

Is most of your worrying just anticipatory anxiety about the future, rather than concerns about what's actually going on now?

Do you get eaten up with dread about upcoming events and how they will turn out?

Your ability to imagine a goal in life, and to work out detailed plans to deal with obstacles, is a truly valuable resource. Deciding what you'll do if things go wrong is key to effective planning. It would be downright silly to assume everything will always go smoothly. Flights will be delayed, rain will fall on garden parties, people will forget what they were going to say, tomato sauce will get spilled over you...

It happens to everyone.

Too much thinking leads to anticipatory anxiety

The trouble is, when you spend too much time thinking too closely about everything that could go wrong, the famous mind-body connection goes into overdrive. Your worrying thoughts can trigger the actual physical emotions that would accompany those unfortunate events. Your heart rate rises, adrenaline floods into your bloodstream, and your body gets ready to face what it believes is a real and present danger.

When really it's all in your imagination.

Now obviously, it doesn't make sense to say you should just stop preparing for future events, and planning for negative eventualities, altogether. That would be likely to bring you some perfectly real (as opposed to imaginary!) difficulties.

What's needed is a way to think about eventualities (good or bad) calmly. A way to calm down any emotional response that gets triggered, so you can stay detached, make sensible plans, and then get on with your life.

And hypnosis is a brilliant way for you to do just that.

Hypnotherapy can help you calm down unnecessary fears

A Hypnotherapy session that will train your unconscious mind to instinctively calm down anxious thoughts about the future.

As you relax and listen , you'll notice that you

• find yourself becoming much more relaxed about life in general

• learn how to take command of your emotional responses

• become more and more skilled at calming and quieting troubling thoughts

• are no longer at the mercy of unpleasant emotions

• can think much more clearly and effectively about helpful ways to prepare for upcoming events

• enjoy life so much more.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley on TVM FITam

Overcome Fear and Anxiety

Hypnotherapy can stop worry and apprehension wrecking your life

Do you often feel fearful and anxious even when you know there's nothing to worry about?

Are your thoughts and emotions controlling you, rather than the other way round?

Feeling worried and frightened is extremely unpleasant

Your heart pounds. Your chest feels too tight. Your guts seem to be tied in knots. You break out in a sweat.

You desperately want to run away - but where to? You might feel sick. You can't think straight. You're sure something awful is going to happen.

What is fear for?

This wouldn't be so bad if you really were about to be run over by a bus or eaten by a rampaging lion. Because then you wouldn't be thinking at all.

You'd be jumping aside, or swarming up a tree as fast as you could go. And you'd be so happy to come out alive that you'd hardly notice the sweat, or the knots. This, after all, is what fear is for. It's to galvanize you into instant, immediate, instinctive, life saving action.

If you are really in danger, fear and anxiety are completely appropriate - and useful! - responses.

Why you can feel afraid when you're perfectly safe

But the chances are that you are having these feelings and thoughts somewhere perfectly safe and secure. You are not about to die. You are not about to be attacked. You are likely surrounded by ordinary folk going about their ordinary lives, just like you.

Sure, some of them may be awkward characters, or may even actively dislike you, but dealing with difficult people is an ordinary part of ordinary life.

So how come you always feel so excessively worried and fearful about stuff?

When fear becomes a habit, growing out of control

Well, you may be surprised to learn this, but, like all human responses, feeling afraid and uneasy can become a habit. There may have been times in the past when you've had genuine reasons to feel frightened about what might happen to you, but somehow this feeling has become generalised to lots of situations where it doesn't belong.

And because fear feeds on itself, growing ever bigger by focusing on how bad things could get, it can end up taking over your life, imprisoning you in an iron cage of worry.

Hypnotherapy can break the fear habit for good

Feel like a great weight has lifted from your shoulders

• Find you are noticeably more relaxed about life in general

• Are surprisingly quick to learn - and use - the vital emotional control technique at the heart of this session

• Start using emotional control in more and more different situations

• Feel much more in command of yourself

• Enjoy life so much more!

  If you feel that Hypnotherapy or Counselling could really help you, then

  PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

  Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
   
  Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

  Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
  For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
   
  To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley on TVM - FitAM

How Can Hypnotherapy Help with Generalised Anxiety Disorder.

Why not try Hypnotherapy for anxiety and you can feel calm today

Are you often overwhelmed by worry and anxiety, even when there is no major cause for concern in your life?

Do you wonder where all those nebulous stomach churning fears spring from and how you can stop them?

Constant worry is debilitating and exhausting

Whether you are fretting about real and pressing problems that you have to solve or whether your mind is full of fears and fantasies about what might go wrong, the effect is the same.

You can't think straight, you feel tense and stressed, your digestion plays up, you can't sleep, you feel sick and there seems no way out. It's a nightmare.

The constant state of 'red alert'

People often compare the state of generalised anxiety to being on constant 'red alert'. It feels as if there is an immediate 'threat' out there.

You are constantly on the look out, even though you don't know what you are looking for, or what you will do if you find it. The comparison is a good one.

It's as if your 'danger sensor' has been set to trip at too low a point. Everything starts to feel threatening.

The vicious spiral of worry

And of course the human danger sensor is not a piece of digital equipment that you can just reset with the flick of a switch. It has an internal feedback mechanism that's regulated by your emotions.

So the more you worry... the more you worry. It's a vicious spiral, but not irreversible.

Because the good news is that this feedback loop works both ways. The less you worry... the less you worry, and the spiral becomes your friend. Hypnotherapy can imprint that positive feedback at an unconscious level and prevent excessive worrying from returning.

How Hypnotherapy for Anxiety will make you;

• feel more relaxed than you have felt in a long time or ever

• experience a growing sense of calm in your mind and body

• begin to develop a new perspective in your mind

• find it easier to deal with what needs to be dealt with

• become more able to set concerns aside and enjoy life

• learn how to prevent excessive worry from returning.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME 

Please contact Kimberley if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION.  
 
Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom 

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions. 
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here 
 
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Kimberley on TVM - FitAM

How to Overcome Anticipatory Anxiety

Calm down your worries about future events with Hypnotherapy

Is most of your worrying just anticipatory anxiety about the future, rather than concerns about what's actually going on now?

Do you get eaten up with dread about upcoming events and how they will turn out?

Your ability to imagine a goal in life, and to work out detailed plans to deal with obstacles, is a truly valuable resource. Deciding what you'll do if things go wrong is key to effective planning. It would be downright silly to assume everything will always go smoothly. Flights will be delayed, rain will fall on garden parties, people will forget what they were going to say, tomato sauce will get spilled over you...

It happens to everyone.

Too much thinking leads to anticipatory anxiety

The trouble is, when you spend too much time thinking too closely about everything that could go wrong, the famous mind-body connection goes into overdrive. Your worrying thoughts can trigger the actual physical emotions that would accompany those unfortunate events. Your heart rate rises, adrenaline floods into your bloodstream, and your body gets ready to face what it believes is a real and present danger.

When really it's all in your imagination.

Now obviously, it doesn't make sense to say you should just stop preparing for future events, and planning for negative eventualities, altogether. That would be likely to bring you some perfectly real (as opposed to imaginary!) difficulties.

What's needed is a way to think about eventualities (good or bad) calmly. A way to calm down any emotional response that gets triggered, so you can stay detached, make sensible plans, and then get on with your life.

And Hypnotherapy is a brilliant way for you to do just that.

Hypnosis can help you calm down unnecessary fears

• find yourself becoming much more relaxed about life in general

• learn how to take command of your emotional responses

• become more and more skilled at calming and quieting troubling thoughts

• are no longer at the mercy of unpleasant emotions

• can think much more clearly and effectively about helpful ways to prepare for upcoming events

• enjoy life so much more.

  If You feel that Hypnotherapy can help you overcome your Anxiety, then

  Please contact Me if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 
  
  Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom

  Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
  For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here
  
  To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact Kimberley by Whatsapp or Phone on 00356 99355901.

Every Day, People From All Walks Of Life, With All Kinds Of Problems Need Someone They Can Turn To

At a time of crisis, when you are experiencing problems it is important to be able to contact someone who can listen and provide counselling immediately or at a time to suit. Counselling offers you a safe, secure, supported place to express how you really feel. This helps you unravel any confusion in your life, to feel clearer about who you are, and what life means to you. Together we can face the things that might be causing your anxiety, distress, or pain...and release any painful emotions that you may be experiencing. 

Then counselling can help you choose the way ahead for you...with any changes you would like to make.

Counselling is also a wonderful way of uncovering the riches inside you...finding your own answers from the wisdom within, together with the wonderful potential that is you... waiting to be discovered. Please see here for list of problems which we may be able to help with

“Thanks Kimberley, you literally saved my life, I felt utterly stuck and couldn’t see a way out my mind just kept going around and around and I couldn’t function for all the stress, Now I have not only found the light outside of the tunnel but am actually smiling and living the life I was meant to. I never imagined I could be this calm and fulfilled.”

— Maria, Hotel Manageress, St.Pauls Bay

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Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here

To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901 or book an appointment here “

Overcome Fear and Anxiety

We Can Stop Worry And Apprehension Wrecking Your Life

Do you often feel fearful and anxious even when you know there's nothing to worry about?

Are your thoughts and emotions controlling you, rather than the other way round?

Feeling Worried And Frightened Is Extremely Unpleasant

Your heart pounds. Your chest feels too tight. Your guts seem to be tied in knots. You break out in a sweat. You desperately want to run away - but where to? You might feel sick. You can't think straight. You're sure something awful is going to happen.

What Is Fear For?

This wouldn't be so bad if you really were about to be run over by a bus or eaten by a rampaging lion. Because then you wouldn't be thinking at all. You'd be jumping aside, or swarming up a tree as fast as you could go. And you'd be so happy to come out alive that you'd hardly notice the sweat, or the knots. This, after all, is what fear is for. It's to galvanize you into instant, immediate, instinctive, life saving action.

If you are really in danger, fear and anxiety are completely appropriate - and useful! - responses.

Why You Can Feel Afraid When You're Perfectly Safe

But the chances are that you are having these feelings and thoughts somewhere perfectly safe and secure. You are not about to die. You are not about to be attacked. You are likely surrounded by ordinary folk going about their ordinary lives, just like you. Sure, some of them may be awkward characters, or may even actively dislike you, but dealing with difficult people is an ordinary part of ordinary life.

So how come you always feel so excessively worried and fearful about stuff?

When Fear Becomes A Habit, Growing Out Of Control

Well, you may be surprised to learn this, but, like all human responses, feeling afraid and uneasy can become a habit. There may have been times in the past when you've had genuine reasons to feel frightened about what might happen to you, but somehow this feeling has become generalized to lots of situations where it doesn't belong.

And because fear feeds on itself, growing ever bigger by focusing on how bad things could get, it can end up taking over your life, imprisoning you in an iron cage of worry.

Hypnosis Can Break The Fear Habit For Good

Personalized 1 on 1 Overcome Fear & Anxiety In Person Course

A MIXTURE OF PERSONALIZED COUNSELLING, HYPNOTHERAPY, & NLP SESSIONS TO Help You Overcome Your Fear Or Anxiety

Please contact my staff or myself if you have any questions or to make an initial CONSULTATION. 

Face To Face  sessions are by appointment only. Appointments are available 6 days a week and also in the evenings at our discreet premises in Mellieha, Sliema & Naxxar in Malta. Or online by skype or Zoom

Please note for sessions in Naxxar clients have access to the pool and a towel after and before their sessions.
For a list of problems I may be able to help you with please click here
To Arrange YOUR INITIAL SESSION Please contact us on 00356 99355901 or book an appointment here